Discussing your concerns with your loved ones and doctor
It can be hard to discuss your concerns with your loved ones and your doctor. Here are some points you may want to think about:
Whom should you share your thoughts with:
1. Who helps you face serious problems in life?
2. Who can help you talk to the doctor?
3. Who understands your fears and worries the most?
4. Who will respect your choices and carry them out when needed?
What should you share with them?
1. Who should speak for you when you cannot speak for yourself
2. What is important for you (e.g. spending time with family, being independent)
3. What you might or might not want (e.g. hospitalization)
4. What do you hope to achieve with the treatment that you choose?
How should you share it with them?
1. Find a place where you feel at ease
2. Start with a familiar topic, e.g. My doctor recently said that…
3. Go slow and be open-minded to what they have to say
What should you share with your doctor?
Do not be afraid to let your doctor know:
1. How you truly feel about your condition
2. Your fears and worries
3. What is important to you
4. What do you hope to achieve with the treatment that you choose
5. What you think is the best treatment for your Kidney Failure
Once completed, we encourage you to share this website with your
kidney counsellor, doctor and loved ones to help choose the right treatment for you.